ie: Face to face or on the phone. You will know that you got it when people will take the time to listen to you. If they shine you off, you know that you need more time learning this stuff.
Also. . . just because you are going through this once does not mean that you will never go through this again. In fact you need to go through this at least 15 times. keep in mind that you should also be putting in at least 20 min. per day.
See you at the top,